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Sunday, 14 June 2015

GOLDEN RULES OF COMMUNICATION

The five golden rules of communication give us a clue what we should do for effective communication. The first one “You create your own experience” makes us understand why we must be accountable for our life. If we are accountable for our life, good or bad; successful or unsuccessful; happy or sad; fair or unfair, we can solve our problems easily, because we will know where the problem stems from. And, if we want to be successful about something, we must encourage ourselves to achieve it. So, this rule teaches us accountability has important role in our life.

The second rule “You get what you give” reminds us the link of action and reaction. There are numerous styles, ways and levels we deal with others, and we may choose different ones in various situations.

PERSONAL VALUATION


We use limitless manners, styles and levels to deal with other people and generally we choose one of them in diverse situations. When dealing with people, these styles will determine how they respond to us.

There are some kinds of these styles that we can find ourselves in: The Porcupine, they walk into every situation expecting to be offended; King or Queen of the Forest: they are legends in their own minds; The Poser: their goal is looking better than the others; People-Eater: they want to control everyone and everything; Drama Queen: every event in their life is extraordinary; Scarlet O’Hara: they choose not to deal with difficulties when faced with them;

COLOR VARIATIONS (WOMEN vs MEN)